Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Its been awhile.

It is now the end of December and I must say that Mr. Time has honored my request of time moving by at a quick pace, now if only he can keep this up through the better part of the next year and I will forever be indebted to him.

Soon Alan will be off to Afghanistan again. Its a hard pill to swallow knowing that at the age of 22 my husband of almost 3 years will be headed off to war for a third time. I have faith that God will bring him back home to Dexter and I, and I have faith in Alan as a Marine, and I also have faith regardless of how many weeks we go in between phone calls or letters that this deployment will strengthen our commitment to each other, our family, and our marriage. My heart still hurts though.


I feel like living the military life accelerates life for those who choose this path. Your twenties are typically they years where you finish college start a career and find the man of your dreams. These days (for me at least) in the military community its spending months being married to your cell phone and praying that your not a widow by the age of 25. Its not something we want to think about, but its always there. Especially for those who are married to a man whose job is less than "safe".

Well, thats all for now. Dman is in bed and I need some hubby snuggles while they are still available. I am going to do my best this year to keep up with my blog.

Cherish your family and the time that you have with them.

xoxo
Stephanie

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Things that make me smile!

Between my husband being gone, and D-Man being sick the past week or so sometimes I need to take a few minutes to remind my self just how lucky I am!












I am one lucky lady!

Thanks for looking!!!!

What makes you smile?

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

03 Wife

Just as the wife of a banker would identify her self as such, I am the wife of a United States Marine. But more than that I am the wife of man who fights on the front lines, goes months with out a real shower, and doesn't get the luxury of seeing his family on the webcam every night. What he does takes a special kind of man. My husband is in the United States Marine Corps Infantry.

Like it takes a strong man to be in the Infantry, it takes a strong loving dedicated wife to be married to that man. I am an Infantry (03) Wife.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Time


If there is one thing in my life I can count on, its time. Most days it seems to move at a slower pace than I would prefer. However, I understand that no matter what my perception of time is, it is always moving forward at the same pace.
 
Last year at this time I was counting down the days for my husband to return from a deployment in Afghanistan. The days seem to last years. Thankfully I had found a supportive group of wives that knew exactly how I felt. The loves of their lives were also 8000 miles away with my husband’s unit. Together we made it through one of the most difficult times of our lives.
 
Here I am today sitting on my couch while my husband is training to leave for another deployment thinking "Where has the time gone??" The amount of time he has been home (about 10 months now) has flown by. We have been able to enjoy much of this time together as a family, watching our son grow. But it honestly only feels like he has been home for only a few weeks.
 
I am so anxious for my husband to come home from training so we can enjoy a little more family time. We will have to live without this luxury for several months. In the same thought, I think of how silly I am to wish this time to pass. Is it selfish of me to hurry the time that I know he is safe and out of a war zone?
 
My son’s time without his father is unavoidable.  Poor D-man, he has the hardest time with daddy being away. I ordered him a Daddy Doll a few weeks ago. We received it two days ago and it has made a huge difference in his attitude!



At this time I wish to address Mr. Time directly: Dear Mr. Time: I have a wish- can you please just pass quickly so I can be at this point again????